Please note that this post is in the case that you are working with an experienced, knowledgeable and professional Holistic Energy Practioner or Reiki Master. It isn't that rare to hear a story about an Energy healing or Reiki session gone weird. The practitioner works on the client, the session is awesome, they part ways feeling great, and later the practitioner gets a phone call or text from the client about the sexual connection felt. "It felt like sex," or "Did you feel what I felt?" or the lingering hug after the session that makes you raise an eyebrow. When you work so closely in someone's energy field it should be expected that both people will feel something. A practitioner will feel the imbalances, blocks, sources of discomfort in the client's field while the client might just feel tingly and relaxed. We are so used to our physical senses that when we feel the sensation of divine energy mingling and merging, it becomes hard to interpret. Sex is about union, merging and even if you have never experienced it when you have been bumping and pumping, it doesn't mean it isn't happening on some level. Sometimes we can be so closed and self-absorbed that physical sex is only about release or stress-reduction. Conversely, when you get an energy healing session you are asked, expected to open up and receive as the practitioner is sending loving, healing energy into your field to promote well-being. So there you are, on that rare occasion, open to feeling what you have been missing. It's that feeling when love reintroduces itself to love, that can be misinterpreted as a lusty, burning fire of sexual desire. And because the only other person in the room is the practitioner, the client can easily feel like this is something that they are sharing together. They aren't. My advice is to have a deeper understanding about sex and move away from the way it has been greatly perverted through media, religion, pornography, and the likes. You can gain this awareness by going within to learn about sex, through meditation, and by studying Tantra, Taoism, Song of Solomon (Bible), electricity, biology, physics, chemistry, the life of a tree, and sex magick to name a few. The next time you feel full of fire in a session or even after meditation, know that you are becoming conscious of divine energy flowing within, loving, purifying, and cleansing you. The practitioner is feeling that loving energy pouring into you and they may even sense your interpretation of it (I know I have), but they are not getting sexually aroused for your hot body or sparkling soul. To summarize:
Much love and healing vibes to you all!
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Me
12/25/2014 10:51:08 am
Hi Kiki,
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Me
12/25/2014 11:09:00 am
Sorry, hit submit to quick. Just wanted to do a minor edit on the last part for more clarity.
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Kiki
12/25/2014 09:54:53 pm
Hey You! All kinds of things come up when I am working with people in sessions, including their love life. It just depends on what I pick up. When two people get together in the context of healing, life issues will come up. There are no standard questions in that sense because everyone is dealing with something different. Sex is a natural, necessary, and beautiful part of life so of course it may come up from time to time. I make a conscious effort to talk about it in a context that works for my clients. It sounds like the practitioner you worked with didn't have the finesse to discuss the subject in a way that you felt safe and respected. It happens. As far as feminine energy goes... Check out my video called, "Feminine Energy: I'll open my legs to that!" on youtube as it may give you more info on femininity. Also study feminine energy for yourself because some people have an extremely limited understanding of what it is (i.e makeup, being sensual/sexy). It isn't in what you put on your face, what you wear, but it is in how you interact with life energetically. Are you open to receiving? Are you creating? Are you using your intuition? Are you nurturing your ideas? Are you comfortable with the unknown? Let me know if this clears things up for you.
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Me
1/29/2015 06:14:12 am
Hi Kiki,
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Henry
12/30/2017 05:16:41 pm
You worry to much. Try someone else and see how you feel. Everyone reacts differently to energy work.
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Tim
8/7/2017 06:25:31 pm
I like to encourage new clients to call "time out" if anything feels even slightly weird or uncomfortable, so we can re-assess how to best serve their needs. I think that a practitioner pushing a client to receive reiki in a certain way is unprofessional, and not in the client's best interests. Any body work must be sensitive to the client's comfort level, which trumps the practitioner's opinions on technique.
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Janelle to Me
2/14/2018 02:13:29 am
I just want to say I can relate to the over -analyzing. Women are wired differently then men. We have been designed to pick up subtle energies and in a society that teaches us to use logical deduction, rational conclusion and to compartmentalize every detail it can be difficult to know what "trusting your intuition" or recognizing what "receiving divine assisstence" feels like. Often what we interpret is a reflection of what is going on within our own consciousness. I will say I find his comments about femininity regarding make up and being sensual so be a little over stepping. Kiki did a nice job in relating femininity to creating, receiving, honoring and expressing your feelings and ideas and being in tough with your creativity in some way. Anyway I can't expand on much more but good luck in finding the right partner and fit for your life, once in that arena there will be more facets of life to discover and experience.
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